Thank You all sooooooo much for supporting!
She's alive!! she runs again! everything, the wires, the hoses was connected just fine, i still don't know why such things happens, The Audi cpecialist with all it's VAG equipment couldn't complete the basic settings, the car just didn't want to go through it without any explaination And I succeeded to make those settings, with simple cheap USB-KKL cable, free VAG tool V2.0.9 software and this site ofcourse: http://wiki.ross-tech.com/wiki/index.php/5-Speed_Electronic_Manual_Transmission_(085))
I would like to mention, that the procedure described by Ross tech has some differences from those described by VAG as I noticed...
Here it is a first ride after more than month of standing, with brand new Ecopia summer tires and new wheel caps
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